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then i wanted to see him more i started complaining he wasn’t making time for me. then i tried the 30 day NC 2 weeks ago and broke it twice.I constantly called and texted Saying give me my things i don’t understand why you not talking to me. he said he needed me and missed me then nothing again.
(FYI, we have a whole chapter on this in our new book “He’s Not That Complicated: How to Crack a Man’s Romantic Code to Get the Relationship You Want“) Even the kindest, most well-meaning, most empathetic guy won’t be able to satisfy a woman who acts needy the majority of the time. I would be pretty surprised if you never had a needy guy around you. Making someone else responsible for your emotions is a key ingredient in creating a toxic relationship type dynamic, so it’s very important to guard against doing that (as well as recognize when others are doing that towards you).
And he only gets angry that I am “caring too much” and that I am selfish… I don’t need hours, even 30 minutes would make me happy….
We did not see each other in person for 2 months and now it seems he dont even miss me and not even want to spend time with me anymore. I feel unhappy, hurt and alone in this relationship but I love the guy so much. He says that he needs to spend time with his friends and do other stuff than being with me… I really don’t think it’s a case of me not having other things to do.
The problem with neediness is that instead of inspiring all of those positive relationship qualities, the “needy person” acts as if their partner is denying them those good relationship qualities…
like they’re entitled to them and their partner is cruelly withholding it.
I told him I’m letting go and moving on and deleting his number.