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It is commonly believed that dating in Japan is easy for non-Asian (particularly white) men and hard for women.
I came across a blog post by zoomingjapn, a German girl living in Japan, writing about dating in Japan as a foreigner. She writes, ‘It is comparably easy for a western foreign man to find a Japanese woman or to have a nice relationship here in Japan’, but ‘it is extremely tough to find a date as a foreign woman here in Japan.’ Her story is interesting in itself but the most interesting part of the article is the huge number of comments gets – 162 comments (or about 30,000 words! A lot of people who commented actually disagree with her.
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"For most of my friends, it's sort of a domination thing," says John (not his real name), 30, a writer in New York.
Those letters are now dwarfed by letters from women asking how to take it up the butt." Okay.
"Ideally, every girl is a disgusting pig who wants it," he says.
"He's got more hang-ups about it than I do," Dawn says.
After the forbidden territory has been conquered, some men find they have psychological issues with the act.
Phillip, an engineer in Chicago, says he and his friends request a ride in the back seat because it's a harder-to-reach goal than old-fashioned intercourse.
"Once a guy has anal sex, he's put on a pedestal by his peers," he says. ' At first they were like, ' No, it will hurt.' Then time after time of having sex with them they finally said okay.
Ten years before, only 26 percent of men and 20 percent of women reported having had anal sex."Anal is the new oral," says syndicated sex columnist Dan Savage.