10 dating tips for divorced men
Kira Brown, 34, from Phoenix, AZ, owned a business with her ex-husband and wishes she'd also hired a financial planner for help negotiating her settlement.3. According to financial analyst Sandy Arons, a divorcee herself, 40% of divorce proceedings are about money.So get as much information as you can about your shared accounts to be well-informed before court.It's time to a grab a few new outfits, a pair of new shoes, and do some grooming.I realize that this sounds basic but you'll be appalled to know how often I meet guys who do not take care of their basic grooming.Time for a makeover***Look, I know it's possible that you were already a sharp dresser. In my experience, most married men I meet, have settled into a comfort zone where the sweatshirt over plain pants look has become their calling card.If you are back on the single scene, it'd help if you started to once again take care of your appearance.
When you were married, things made sense even if the circumstances were atrocious. You're not the first man to become divorced, nor are you the last. Do you know how to properly approach beautiful women? Then again, that may be because I have never been married either.Now, I am going to lay out a specific 10 Step program to enable you to effectively join the single scene again and start attracting more women.***STEP 1- Attitude readjustment***It all starts with your ATTITUDE. If you are reading through this article, perhaps you have already made this decision! Chances are if you were married for 15 or 20 years, you were institutionalized, sort of like the character of "Brooks" from the classic movie "The Shawshank Redemption." If you've seen the movie, you know exactly what I am talking about.The first thought that pops into the head of a lot of men is hitting the bar and club scene. Exercise will make you FEEL better physically, emotionally, and mentally.Depending on your age, taste, likes and dislikes, you may not be a bar/club guy. You can still make an effort to approach women during your daily activities which could range from supermarket and coffee-shops to various classes, clubs, and the gym. I'd only advise you to utilize the personals as a supplemental means to meet women, not as your only means to meet new women.***STEP 4- Start exercising again***I am being a bit presumptuous here. It will also boost your self-confidence which is of the utmost importance!